The Healing Power of Opposing Sensations: My Yoga Nidra Journey

Last Thursday, one of my students asked if we could explore a longer session of Yoga Nidra. While I regularly incorporate Yoga Nidra techniques into my relaxation segments, a dedicated Yoga Nidra class invites participants into a deeper journey—one that explores the fascinating space between our conscious and subconscious mind. This practice is often called the “Yoga of the Mind” for good reason.

What is Yoga Nidra?

Yoga Nidra guides us into a state of conscious deep relaxation—a place where we remain aware while experiencing profound rest. One of its most powerful techniques involves experiencing opposing sensations, which offers valuable insights not just on the mat, but in life itself.

The Practice of Opposing Sensations

During a Yoga Nidra session, participants are guided to experience contrasting physical sensations. The facilitator might ask you to invite heaviness into your body, making that sensation fully alive in your experience. Then, you’re guided to transition to lightness, bringing that equally alive. The same approach applies to other opposing pairs: cold/hot, pain/pleasure.

This practice serves a deeper purpose than simple relaxation. It teaches us not to get stuck in a single sensation or emotional state. Our neural pathways tend to follow familiar routes, even when those routes lead to discomfort. By practicing the shift between opposing experiences, we develop greater flexibility of mind and emotional resilience.

My Personal Journey with Pain and Pleasure

Yesterday’s longer Yoga Nidra session revealed something remarkable about my own healing journey. Years ago, when practicing opposing sensations, I found certain transitions particularly challenging. I could easily access heaviness but struggled to experience lightness. Cold came readily, but warmth was elusive.

Most notably, having lived with chronic pain for much of my life due to being born with a club foot, the sensation of pain was all too accessible. I could summon it vividly, but when asked to transition to pleasure, I found myself stuck—unable to release the pain and welcome in something different.

The Healing Path Through Savoring

My healing journey has taken many forms. The Alexander Technique helped me address much of my physical pain. Through meditation, I gained understanding of the negativity bias we all carry—that tendency to notice and dwell on the negative while overlooking the positive.

A practice that transformed my experience was savoring. Savoring isn’t about toxic positivity or denying life’s difficulties. Rather, it’s the deliberate act of pausing when experiencing something beautiful, allowing that experience to fully register in your awareness.

When you see a stunning sunset, savor it for a few extra moments. When you taste something delicious, pause to fully appreciate it. When someone shows you kindness, let that warmth linger. This practice doesn’t negate pain—pain exists AND beauty exists. Savoring simply strengthens our capacity to fully experience the positive when our world so often emphasizes the negative.

A Moment of Recognition

Last Thursday’s class revealed how profoundly I’ve changed. As we moved through the opposing sensations practice, I noticed I could still access the traditionally “negative” sensations with ease, but something was different. The opposing “positive” sensations appeared just as quickly and with equal or even greater intensity.

The shift was most dramatic with pleasure. Images flooded my awareness—my daughter’s eyes, a delicious pizza, swimming in the sea, singing in community, receiving a gentle caress, gazing at a starry night, laughing without reason, crying in someone’s arms, and dancing freely. Years of savoring practice had created a rich internal library of pleasure that now came forth effortlessly.

In that moment of practice, I realized how much healing has occurred within me over the past decade. The contrast between my current experience and my previous struggles highlighted the distance I’ve traveled on my healing journey.

Beyond Emotions

This practice of opposing sensations offers something profound: it teaches us to navigate our emotional landscape with greater freedom. By developing the ability to move between different emotional states rather than becoming trapped in one, we gain a certain neutrality toward our emotions.

This neutrality doesn’t mean becoming emotionless—far from it. Rather, it means we’re no longer at the mercy of our emotional states. We can experience them fully while maintaining awareness that we are more than any single emotion. This awareness creates space to move beyond being defined by our emotional world and connect with the deeper aspects of ourselves.

An invitation

If you’ve never experienced Yoga Nidra or worked with opposing sensations, I highly recommend exploring this practice. Whether you’re carrying physical pain, emotional wounds, or simply the weight of daily stress, the simple act of practicing transitions between opposing experiences can gradually reshape your relationship with yourself and your world.

The journey to healing isn’t always linear, but sometimes—like during last Thursday’s practice—we’re gifted with beautiful moments of recognition that show us just how far we’ve come.

Pinelopi embarked on her yoga journey in 1999, completing a 600-hour Hatha Yoga Teacher and Vedantic Philosophy Training course in Valencia, Spain. She founded English Yoga Berlin in 2010, and now has over 15 years of experience as a full-time yoga teacher.

She deepened her knowledge by studying Yoga Anatomy with Leslie Kaminoff. Additionally, she trained with David Moore and attended his “Injury-free yoga” workshops, integrating the Alexander Technique into yoga poses. This comprehensive training enriched her expertise in both fields.

In January of 2023, Pinelopi achieved a significant milestone by becoming a certified Alexander Technique teacher. This was an intensive training for 3.3 years, totaling 1600 hours of dedicated study with Jorg Aßhoff.

Pinelopi’s ergonomic consultations integrate anatomy, Alexander Technique, and yoga’s mind-body understanding. Her holistic approach optimizes well-being in the workplace through comprehensive guidance.

She has completed training in ‘Understanding Trauma for Safer Spaces’ with Legacy Motion and ‘Somatic Embodiment and Regulation Strategies’ with Linda Thai. She is currently learning from Steffi Bednarek about applying Internal Family Systems for Social Transformation. Her meditation philosophy is deeply inspired by Tara Brach, particularly the RAIN meditation. She is also the author of a children’s book, ‘Magic of Rain,‘ which introduces the RAIN meditation to children and their grown-ups. It will be published in 2025 by Mango Publishing.

Happy Spring from English Yoga Berlin!

Dear Yogis and Friends!

Every year I get very excited when the sun crosses the celestial equator and day and night become of equal length.

Photo by Melissa Askew

Photo by Melissa Askew

The spring equinox marks the beginning of a new season, and living in Berlin, that symbolically marks the end of a long winter and the beginning of light shining through again!  It might still take some time but it is happening!

It’s time for that  (internal and external) spring cleaning  and I, for one, could not be more excited about it!

I find that every winter, a symbolic hibernation takes place in us that wisely slows us down, makes us go inwards, meditate, ponder, self-explore. It asks of us to explore our inner strength when the light is dim and the air is heavy. And in doing so we start planting new seeds into our subconscious, new wishes for our lives, new directions to follow.

And now? Now it’s time to open the windows, to clean up the cobwebs, and get rid of all the extra things that have accumulated and are not needed. It’s time to let fresh air into our hearts and minds. It’s time to enjoy the butterflies, the singing of the birds, smile at strangers, and let the sun touch our skin.  It’s time to bloom!

HAPPY SPRING EVERYBODY!!!

 

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 Pinelopi specializes in Hatha Yoga. Her yoga Berlin Kreuzberg classes are open for and welcoming to beginners. She is a sivananda yoga teacher that also offers Berlin business yoga, pregnancy yoga, and private yoga classes for people struggling with chronic pain. All her yoga classes end in deep relaxation using yoga Nidra techniques.  In her Berlin Chakra course, she uses the chakras as a base line to self-explore concepts such as forgiveness, group thought, letting go, and becoming self-aware of limiting beliefs.

Decodifying Forgiveness

Photo by David Schap

Photo by David Schap

What is forgiveness? One can apologize, say sorry, ask forgiveness. But what do these words actually mean? Are they all the same? And does this distinction even matter?

When I get lost with the meanings of words, I often go back to their etymology. I like to see what the original meaning of the word was, when the need for that word to be created arose. I also find it very telling to see how far we’ve strayed from that meaning.

When I looked up the word to forgive on the online etymological dictionary I was particularly impressed at the word meaning “to give up”. To give up what exactly? In old English it meant “to give up desire or power to punish”. Sorry, on the other hand, comes from the word sorrow. So when I say, I’m sorry to someone what I am actually saying is “I can feel your sorrow.” Apology comes from Greek, meaning “to use speech in defense”.

Interestingly, in Greek there are two more words used interchangeably for the word forgive. One is signomi (sin+ gnomi), which means I am now of the same opinion as you”. The other one is me-sighoreis which could be translated as “Can you make space for me to also be?”

I find the meaning of these words to be quite different to one another, and yet we use them all interchangeably and indiscriminately. No wonder we are all confused about what it means to forgive! Is it to give up the will to punish, to feel one’s sorrow without changing our actions, to hear someone defend themselves through speech, to tell the other person they were right all along, or to give the other person permission to also be as he/she is?

Before we even consider forgiving anything, we must at least know what we mean by it. Which is the forgiving that so many people say will liberate the heart and let it find peace?

Tara Brach tells this beautiful story in order to explain the process of forgiveness that resonates deeply with me:

“Imagine you are in the woods and you see a dog under a tree. You smile and go to pet this dog and it lurches at you, fangs bared and growling. You become angry at the dog and then you see its leg is caught in a trap. You shift again and go from being angry at the dog to having compassion for it.”

The shift from anger to compassion is when the forgiveness happens. I guess in a way you are doing all of the above: you give up the will to punish the dog (forgive) because you feel his sorrow (sorry). You can explain through speech what just occurred (apology), you are now of the same opinion – you would be angry too if you were trapped – (signomi) and you make space for the dog to also exist in his pain (me sighoreis).

Forgiveness occurs when anger turns to compassion.

Does this mean that because you forgave the dog, you should now go pet him and get bit? No way! It means that if you choose to help the dog, you need to approach him in a way that has clear boundaries that won’t damage you. And if that is not possible because the dog is so deep in his own pain and too dangerous for you to deal with, then you need to leave – and let someone with more experience help the dog out of his trap.

 Pinelopi specializes in Hatha Yoga. Her yoga Kreuzberg classes are open for and welcoming to beginners. She  also offers Berlin business yoga, pregnancy yoga, and private yoga classes for people struggling with chronic pain. All her yoga classes end in deep relaxation using yoga Nidra techniques.  In her Berlin Chakra course, she uses the chakras as a base line to self-explore concepts such as forgiveness, group thought, letting go, and becoming self-aware of limiting beliefs.

Hatha Yoga with Pinelopi is back!

Pinelopi is now back from summer holiday, full of new energy and happy feelings, ready to teach yoga again!

 

Pinelopi’s classes are a mix of Hatha asanas (yoga poses), grounding techniques, pranayama (breathing exercises), pratyahara (practice of detachment), yoga nidra and meditation. She is an injury conscious yoga teacher and is a firm believer that yoga is for everybody and any body. She believes that no one should ever be in pain during class. All yoga poses can be adjusted so that one is still stretching, growing, strengthening, challenged, without experiencing pain or triggering old injuries.

Yoga, for her, requires becoming conscious of where you are at physically, emotionally, spiritually and what means you have available at this moment. Once the practitioner identifies this, yoga will work from there to release blocks and open up one’s spirit to new ways of seeing the world and receiving its’ gifts.

Join her at one of her regular Hatha Yoga weekly classes starting September 1st, 2016:

Monday

Tuesday

Thursday

9:45-11:15
Hatha Yoga

18:00-19:30
Hatha Yoga

18:00-19:30
Hatha Yoga

20:00-21:30
Hatha Yoga

Pinelopi specializes in Hatha Yoga. Her yoga classes are open for and welcoming to beginners. She  also offers Berlin business yoga, pregnancy yoga, and private yoga classes for people struggling with chronic pain.